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This actually happened years ago. Back when I was in highschool I was friends with a foreign exchange student from China we'll call Ed. I was bullied a lot & didn't really have any friends. Well one day the local movie theater was playing the Titanic & Ed asked me to go with him. My brain & undiagnosed neurdivergent self did not register this as a date. At the time I truly didn't think anyone could like me that way. I even had a crush on him & it didn't register. I met him at the movie theater (after having a panic attack thinking it was a joke because I got there too early).
At the end of the movie he decided to sing to me. It kind of made sense because we were both in chorus at school together. I sat there awkwardly because I didn't know what to do. I had a fun time it was my first time seeing Titanic. Once he stopped singing he leaned towards me. I had no idea why I was very confused & was like why are you in my bubble, but I didn't say that just kind of leaned back, he then laughed awkwardly we said goodnight went out separate ways. He started avoiding me at school & then went home early without saying goodbye. I was hurt & didn't understand why my friend ghosted me & I never heard from him. It's over a decade later I'm married & have a kid & I realize "OHH HE WAS TRYING TO KISS ME THAT WAS A DATE".
Y'all I feel so bad I didn't mean to reject him which I'm positive is why he never talked to me again. I had a freaking crush on him at the time 😂. I wish there was a way I could get in touch & let dude know hey sorry I didn't realize that was messed up of me & I hope he's doing okay today in life he was very sweet & a friend when I needed one.
TL;DR: I went on a date not realizing it was a date with a guy I had a crush on & he tried to kiss me & I didn't realize that's what he was doing & was very confused & I unintentionally rejected him to not realize till years later.
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