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TIFU by being nervous

Happened Wednesday but I need it off my chest

I had a phone screening scheduled with the hiring manager. I left work as soon as I could and parked in a parking lot with lots of stores and no immediate loitering signs.

I was so nervous about sitting there.

I'm trying to make sure my phone work. Suddenly I realize I don't have bars and my phone says SOS mode. I panic restart but it's time for the interview.

I don't get a call.

Do I call them? Do I wait? I wait 15 minutes and assume they ghosted me.

I go into a store as to not be loitering. I come out with 5 minutes left to the interview. I see they called me at 4:17. I try calling them back. No answer.

My call log says 4:17. The voicemail says 4:01.

I send a panic email. No answer.

I try calling them during my lunch the following day. No answer. but I leave a voicemail.

I send a professional email asking if they could reschedule but if not (all the phone options were on 1 day) thanks for their time.

I get a response saying they've moved on but look again in the future.

I google what happens to those who miss interview. Informal blacklists because it shows a lack of priorization. This is a big company, I might have screwed up my life.

TL;DR I was too nervous to call the number in the scheduling email at 4:05. I missed the interview and got rejected. I have also probably put myself on a no-hire list for professionalism.

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