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For context, I’m a gay man, and I was 19 when this happened. It was very much a phase of my life where I was very, very sexually active. You know that period where you want to try everything, discover everything, have zero self-preservation instincts, and way too much confidence? Yeah. That. At the time, I was doing an internship at a company, and if I’m being completely honest, I spent way more time on Grindr looking for my evening hookup than actually working. Also, back then I definitely had a thing for older men. Daddy issues, you know. So one day I start talking to this guy, probably in his 40s, maybe older, I honestly don’t remember exactly. We chat, things get heated, and he tells me, “When you finish work, come straight to my place.” And of course, I say yes. I leave work, get in my car, and it’s about a 25-minute drive to his place. And during that drive, one very important detail becomes impossible to ignore: I have to pee. Like, really pee. Not a cute little managea...