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TIFU by going on a my first date ever with a man 22Yrs older than me

I 18f have just moved to new country to start university funny enough it was my first day of class too. I have never dated anyone before and on sunday i downloaded bumble originally looking for friends on there. I got curious and switched to the dating side and started swiping yes on guys that had good jobs and looked rich. Obviously I know that its weird for anyone over 22 to be attracted to a 18yr old. But in my mind I thought I thought that i might as well take advantage of them too and take their money. I have been watching a lot of shera7's videos and now im starting to doubt her messages. I never had the intention to have sex or get physical with any of these guys. I raised the age on my filters because older guys are more financially stable. I matched with a guy called H and on his profile it showed him flying a plane and that he was also an engineer and 40. Not conventionally attractive but I just caref about the money. On his bio, it said that he was a traditional guy,...

TIFU Advising My Cousin To Talk To His Alma Mater To Ask About Degree Pathways

I (25M, college-educated with a master's degree in CS) have a cousin (31M) who attended MCPHS between September 2013 and June 2019, took 12 full time semesters, had a cumulative GPA of ~3.0-3.3 before dropping out, and majored in Pharmacy with a minor in business. My cousin told me the program was 7 years long, and even though he had approximately 6 years worth of college credits given his full time status there (he even took some summer classes to retake some failed courses), he dropped out of MCPHS in June 2019, against his parents' wishes. He is saddled in 300k USD in student loans, of which he claimed he will never pay. He moved back to his parents' house in June 2019, where he slept in a six square metre bedroom he used to sleep in as a child, teen, and during summers outside of the school year. Since 2019, his whole extended family, including his parents, uncles, aunts, cousins, and younger sister (27F) advise him to return to college, contact them, and look into any ...

TIFU by accidentally telling my teacher that I’m my brother’s brother

today a teacher I’ve known for years and deeply respect called my mom’s phone asking for my brother. I picked up the phone. Now, picture this: I’m 19 years old, and my brain is running at 200 mph trying to sound polite, perfectly articulate, and composed for this teacher. What does my overthinking brain decide to produce instead? 'Hello! Ah, my brother? Yes, I am his BROTHER.' Y’all, I am a 19-year-old girl. My mom was standing RIGHT NEXT TO ME when I said it. The micro-second of absolute, deafening silence on the line after I said that felt like three whole business days. I immediately corrected myself, passed the message, and hung up as fast as I could, but the emotional damage was already done. My brain has been replaying this 10-second glitch in 4K resolution for hours. Please tell me I’m not the only one who has completely ruined their dignity in front of someone they respect over a stupid slip of the tongue. Drop your worst brain-fart stories in the comments so ...

TIFU: Help a girl out ya'll, out of a super stupid and embarrassing situation pwetty pls

I dont know if I should even be saying this stuff on social media but I dont know where else to turn to when I want some real world advice, opinions or hear about people that have gone through something like this. I might yap a lot of bear with me ya'll So I am an alevel kid and I went to this revision class. The institute is something I am familiar with but its stupid bathroom isnt. And well, as embarrassing as this is, the second I got there i wanted to go to the washroom. Like it was an emergency and I had to stay in that class for hours so I wanted to get it overwith. All my friends were upstairs already cause I was a bit late so I thought well its not that big a deal so might as well go alone and come back as quickly as possible. And again this was my first time going to the washroom. I just realised then and there that its just one washroom, one stall for both girls guys men and women. And I had to relieve myself and it was sort of spacious and it lowkey stank. But I was li...

TIFU by texting an older friend about exchanging contact info

Ok, this is a little silly, but It’s been about 2 months now and I still feel like I fucked something up and can’t get it back. So I (F early 20’s) made friends with an older gentlemen (M mid to late 40s-50s) last year and would occasionally message each other on Instagram/facebook. Nothing too crazy, mostly he would congratulate me on my recent accomplishments and send me some advice if I needed it which I always took to heart and appreciated. To me, he’s like a father figure and always had my back like a supportive parent would. We have mutual friends who I’m really close with and they were hosting a party, so I went over to Instagram and asked if he was going to be there since he was invited. I also threw in “also at this point we should exchange contact info” at the end, since I thought it was a little silly not to have each others contact info at this point since we’ve known each other for a while now. He saw that message, but never responded. It’s been two months now and I ...

TIFU i think i scared the mcdonald’s worker

So when i was around 12 (in my 20s now) my mom wanted me to gain some independence and learn to order and get food for us as a family. We lived right beside a shopping centre that had a Walmart with a McDonald’s inside. She had sent me with her card and a list of whatever was wanted, she told me “this is what you need to order word for word and whatever you would like, just come back with my card and the bill. Oh but make sure you tell them to supersize my meal” Supersize? i remember thinking “the fuck is that?” (in canada where we live I had never hear this) never the less, mom said what she said and i’m on my new journey of adult hood. after my treacherous walk of 5 whole minutes where as i walked the whole time i practiced everyone’s orders, feeling so mature and confident. i approached with the up most confidence to this poor clearly young teen boy exhausted from his job “hello welcome to mcdonald’s what can i get you?” “hello..saaa..sir… i would like (said my whole family’s order ...