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TIFU by accidentally rejecting my childhood crush

TIFU: How I fumbled the prettiest Girl and now I don’t know what to do next

Like, I met a girl this year. She was my junior (-1). She randomly texted me about some society/club joining requirement. I didn’t know much about her at first, but from January we started texting. Then she sent me an Insta request. We used to talk sometimes not very much, mostly related to branch future scope, jobs, and all that stuff. I had never seen her properly before, but after her Insta request I saw her and man she is sooo pretty. Just wowww.

2 months passed, we still talked occasionally. I didn’t try to make much effort from my side as a senior because uska approach karke apne lawde nhi lagana the.

Then one day I was sitting at college CCD on a bench, my face towards the cafe entry gate. She walked in with her friend and we both knew each other’s faces very well by then.Her friend was ordering something and she was looking at me, and I was also looking at her. Suddenly she got a little smile on her face, and my stupid brain kept saying:😭Don’t say hi, let her say hi first. Then I waved my hand towards her, but I think she didn’t see it.🫠

Then at one shop we met again Pastry shop. She was standing beside me, like TOO close. The shopkeeper asked her name and her voice was so soothing, smooth, calm. She looked at me, but the fucker me didn’t react, didn’t say hi to her, didn’t even properly look at her.Fuck this sigma male shit.

2 weeks passed. I sent some reel, she reacted with a funny emoji, and then the same night she blocked me. Fucking hell man. I couldn’t digest that fact.

One fucking stupid moment really fucked my chance completely.

So now what should I even do next? Move on? Or is there still any chance I should try again somehow?

TL;DR: Met a really pretty junior girl through college chats, had multiple chances to talk properly in real life but acted too cold/nervous, got blocked later, and now I regret fumbling everything. Wondering if I should move on or try again somehow.

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