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TIFU by admitting my sexual history to my girlfriend after initially lying about it. At the beginning of my relationship, my girlfriend point-blank asked me how many sexual partners I have had. I was caught off guard by the question and thought it was kind of weird so I lied about it. Six months later after the topic was brought up again in a conversation I started to feel really guilty about the lie. I came clean to her about my past and she took it well at first, but I could see the wheels spinning in her head. She eventually was only mad about the lie, which is understandable, but the trust in the relationship is absolutely destroyed. She already isn't a very physically touch inclined partner, so that appeal for her dropped to rock bottom. I don't know if it will be salvageable in the long run, because I could see this coming up again I.E. in an argument.
TL:DR - I admitted my sexual history after lying about it initially, girlfriend didn't take it well and giving me cold shoulder
Edit: We haven’t broken up. She wants to give me a second chance.
Edit 2: Thank you all for your replies. The general theme that I am seeing is that we are incompatible and there are a lot of red flags. I haven't made my decision yet, but I will certainly make one soon.
Edit 3: She now wants me to make a list of everything I like about her and why I'm dating her...
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