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TIFU by bringing up Ukraine-Russian war and loosing my best friend

Sorry if I don't write well, English is not my main language. Also I am part Ukranian and have relatives in Ukraine which makes the situation more heated. I also live in the Baltics which I adress to make story more clear.

So me and my at the time best friend met up to watch football. Everything was going great, we were talking about everything family, girlfriends, work, studies and making jokes.

Everything was going well until we started talking about the war. Long story short my friend supports Putin since Zelensky has angered Putin and that Ukrainians should surrender so more people don't die. He also has seen Ruski propoganda in which Ukranians have nazis flags. But there is a thing that I just absolutely cannot forgive and I got very, very angry about is that he said that Russians should take over the Baltics since the government is "complete garbage" and would also give a second breath to business owners so he could start one.

He has family here, father police officer who would have to possibly even go to front line and he says Russia should take over. After the stuff he said I am just going to honestly say what it is "complete idiotism and shit". After that we were arguing even more, me trying to explain that his family would be in danger, he could himself possibly die, me aswell and a lot more innocent people would die. He I guess didn't care and he didn't agree with what I said. I just said "Иди нахуи́" turned my back and left.

TLDR: Got into a heated argument with my 'best friend" which I theoretically started since I bringed it up and lost a friend.

Edit: Thank you everyone for your kind words and advice. I didn't expect this post to get so much traction.

I have decided that I will will not write my friend or ammend this situation, but if he comes through first messaging me, apologising, then I will decide whether to keep being friends or at least end the friendship on good terms. Again, thank you everyone for kind words and courage regarding my relatives. Слава Україні!

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