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TIFU Left my GF after she came out as Asexual

Hi there.

We are m 28 and f 31.

So our story starts when we met back in december 2012. She was head over heels for me, but at the time I had no interest. After a while our friendship grew and we came to an agreement to be friends with benefits. An amazing time where the sex was overflowing an plentyfull. After a while i cane to terms with what I wanted and I was convinced to pursue a relationship. We soon after started living together

Now the sex itself hasnt ever been an issue up untill now...however there was always the problem that I was hyper sexual wanting to have it more than once a week, but she didnt. I would always have to nag or try my utter most best. So as an agreement we said lets do it just once a week.. I was okay with that since the sex was beyond amazing. After a few years it no longer became once a week, sometimes nothing for a month. That made me very frustrated so we made the agreement that instead of once a week it would be once in every other week.. I was still okay with that.

Our relationship hasnt always been the best. Because she has several personal issues we are almost always at home and dont do anything ( she is too scared to do anything), We both no longer have friends and we both dont want anything to do with our families. So we only ever have each other

Now 9 years, almost 10 years later she is convinced that she is asexual and no longer wants me to touch her nor ever have sex again. This hit like a beast of a truck... According to her she never felt the need for sex nor did she always enjoy it. She doesnt feel anything from penetration and has difficulties reaching an orgasm. However over the years we found out what works for her and i thought she was okay with our sexlife. She always thought ahe had a low libido, but appearantly she started reading about asexuality and is now 100% convinced she is and never wants anything to do with Intimacy or anything else.

I grabbed my dog and essential stuff and i left. i am now sitting at my parents regretting my decision.

TL;DR left GF after 9 yeara because she doesnt want sex anymore

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