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TIFUpate: allowing my coworker to set me up

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TIFU by being upfront instead of ghosting my lame date.

I (30F) went on a date with a guy (31M) who I met a few days ago. I thought he was cute and he told me how sweet and pretty I was and that he wanted to take me on a date. We went out for tacos and margaritas at one of my favorite taco spots. Throughout the date it felt pretty one sided as far as I was trying to make conversation and all he wanted to do was get out of the taco place and walk around so we could hold hands. I quickly started to realize our communication styles were completely different and I was not feeling any kind of spark. We got done with tacos and I suggested we go to a spot with board and card games instead of just walking around. He insisted on walking around and holding my hand, putting his arm around me and constantly touching my face until I finally had to demand he stop touching my face. I couldn’t wait for the date to be over with. I was relieved after he finally dropped me back off at my car. Today he asked to go to the cinema for our next date and I told him that I was grateful for the tacos and his time, but wasn’t feeling it and it would be best to just be friends. He responded with “i dont buy food and drink for my freinds you drink two drinks and food i need 30$ back”. I don’t even know how to respond to that. I’m feeling like I guess I should’ve just ghosted him.

TL:DR I went on a date which was a total dud and he thinks I owe him $30 since I don’t want to continue dating him.

Update: I haven’t responded and now he is calling me a scammer and that he knows another guy from the bar I work at that I pulled the same “scam” on. This is funny to me because this guy is the only person I’ve gone on a date with that I’ve met while bartending and he has only lived here for 10 months. He is threatening to talk to my employer about this “scam” I am running. This is also amusing as my boss and I are very close and he is the owner of the bar. I’ve kept the owner in the loop about everything from the start (before even going into the date) and he thinks it would be hilarious if this guy came to talk to him about my so called scam.

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