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TIFU by not taking middle school seriously. And now my mom is cutting all ties with me, my sister's and my dad...

The title says it all. I am a 14 yo boy from Malaysia (sorry for the bad grammar. English is not my first language) I'm in bed covered in a blanket while writing this. This whole situation started when my sister (13 yo) started going out late at night... My sister got scolded for it but she still does it sometimes... This all spiralled down to this. I was emotionally unstable and was not able keeping my grades up. Before the lockdown i was a pretty smart kid getting A's and B's in elementary school. But it all went downhill after the quarantine...

The following quote is what she has to say about me and my sister

"This is Mummy's expression of love for the two of you, how your Mummy's heart is melting with your achievements, FAILED in most subjects, I don't know what to do, after this it's up to you what to do, Mummy is really DISAPPOINTED, Mummy is no longer well with your attitude, it's up to you to do whatever you want, Mummy really doesn't want to know."

And this quote quote is what she has to say to my dad...

"Starting tomorrow, you will bring all my children back to your mother's house, let my mother and I stay at home, it is up to you what to do with the children after this, I don't want to know, SAD but this is the best for our family, I am TIRED and FRUSTRATED. After all the affairs of my mother's move are finished, i will also leave. Take care of your children. I don't even see the money work. The house is abandoned, we are already in debt and want to wait until 5 years before it is over, we want to rent the town house to cover expenses but you didn't do it, I burden myself with debt. I'm REALLY TIRED."

i don't know what to do

TL;DR f*cked by not taking school seriously. Now my mom is cutting all ties with me

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