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TIFU by telling my husbands best friend that we’re married.

my husband (18M) and i (19F) have been married for a few months now. we are happy even though are family’s aren’t that supportive of our marriage, they say we rushed into it to quick, but we decided not to listen to them and now we are in love and married. but when we first considered marriage we were thinking about not telling anyone we were getting married, we were young and had only been together for a few months back then, so we knew everyone would be against it, and we were right. his sister (17F) and her boyfriend (17M) found out and said that we were crazy and should at least be considering our future and if we really should be doing this, but it was already final, it was too late. we ended up getting married and even though they were hesitant, his sister and her boyfriend were there to support us at our wedding. they were the only one who knew we were married at the time, but soon, after my husband got injured and had to go to the hospital, i accidentally told his parents. they weren’t supportive, of course, and they even tried to convince us to divorce. saying that we are just young and naive and just think we are in love but we’re not, but we brushed it off and moved on. soon, everyone in our circle knew. they didn’t say much about it, but we knew they wanted to.

one night, i went to go see his best friend (18M). i was worried about my husband since he had been acting differently lately and i figured his best friend would have known what was wrong with him. i said- “maybe its the fact that his parents are going crazy over the marriage but-“ and then he said “marriage? what marriage?”. i was confused, obviously, but then i considered that he doesn’t know we got married. i told him that me and my husband had got married a few months back on our vacation, and i could see the disappointment in his face. i tried to tell him that i had no idea that my husband didn’t tell him but even though he didn’t say it, i could tell he wasn’t having it. he walked off saying “it’s fine, really.” but i knew it wasn’t.

i’m scared that i have ruined the long time friendship of my husband and his best friend, since his best friend has always spoken about his hate for liars in conversation, and the fact that we’ve been married for months now is probably going to make it worse.

and even though it sounds selfish, i’m scared that this is going to make a tear in our relationship too. our relationship has already been breaking apart with our families, him lying to me, the jealousy, and even him insinuating that he’s trapped in our marriage. i’m scared, we just got married and we’re already on the verge of divorce.

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