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TIFU by inviting a tinder match over

Technically, it happened last night butttt

I (21F) matched with someone (26M) on Tinder last night. We started chatting and I thought it'd be nice to meet but I didn't want to meet last night. He kept pushing, and eventually, around 10 p.m., I said whatever cone over, we can watch movies see what happens. The whole night was awkward..

He drank a couple beers he brought with him and I sat on the couch with him but he seemed to nervous to make a move and I was fine with that because after meeting him in person I wasn't that interested. We talked, and it was okay, I kept putting on movies, hoping that he'd sober up and go home..

He never made a move on me really besides the fact that instead of talking to me he asked if I wanted to make out via snapchat even though we were sitting right next to each other and then asked if I wanted to lay down at 3 am when I had gotten off the couch to go to the bathroom then decided to sit on the bean bag after so maybe he'd get the hint I wanted him to go

Nope it's currently 10 am the next day he's still asleep on my couch and I don't know what to do cause I want him to leave I've been quietly creeping around my own apartment waiting for him to wake up and head out cause I don't know him that well and I don't want to wake him up.

I literally slept on my beanbag in the living room with him on the couch to avoid any potential misunderstanding or him wanting to come to my bedroom with me. I'm so uncomfortable, and I regret caving in and letting him come in the first place.

Now I'm sitting in my bedroom, still waiting for him to get up and go

TL;DR I invited a tinder date match Iverson after he pressured me to now he's still asleep on my couch after a very awkward night

ETA: I woke him up and said I needed him to leave so I could get some stuff done and he had me walk him out and asked for a hug which i gave him.. and he wants to hang out again...

ETA 2: After he officially left I messaged saying I'd like to cut things off as I wasn't interested and he just said alright and I made sure to unaddressed hi from tinder and snapchat I feel bad 😅

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