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TIFU by telling my boyfriend truth

First English isn't my first language so please excuse some mistakes. Ty

Me and my boyfriend are together for almost a year but we know each other way longer. Him and I are really close we tell each other everything and trust each other. I would like to say that we are perfect for each other but that's not the point of the story

We have our little arguments but we usually clear that up except for one thing. He is really smart guy and has really big IQ but he is literally triggered by anything that "stupid" people do For example if one person does something hard and longer way and he doesn't that makes him mad and other stuff like that. For years I tried to calm him down when he is in that faze but his only respond to that is "you don't understand me" but when I ask him to explain it's "why are you so stupid to not understand it. You are like the others" and then doesn't talk with me for a day. But otherwise he is a really nice person now earlier today I was at his place and we were talking about problems that we could have and everything went good, after that we are laughing and having fun so pretty normal day. Then after few hours he texts me how some ppl made him mad for doing stupid things and I started my usual trying to calm him down but this time his response was "do you really think that helps" and I got really pissed at that So I said to him that he shouldn't look other ppl down bc they are "stupid " not everybody can be like him and he should deal with it it's really dumb to be at other ppl and what they do, that he can't control what others do and deal with that. He looks at others like he is some god and I went on and on tbh I didn't feel bad for what I said because it is truth he looks at people like they are all nothing witch annoys me so much And after that his only answer to that was again "So you are like the other r word, Goodbye" and then left

After that I felt really bad and apologies but that probably won't help

TL;DR I told my boyfriend he should look at other people low and he didn't like it. He is ignoring me

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