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I, 24f and my boyfriend, 33m were planning on going out for our one year anniversary this Saturday. We had this whole day planned on going to the movies, going out to eat, and then going to this "Paranormal Cirque" thing later in the evening. We just had our first son together, and he is now a month old. My mom agreed to babysit him during the early part of the day (movie and lunch) and my dad agreed to babysit him during the evening (the paranormal cirque). All seemed good, we got the tickets and we were both excited. Today I realized having my dad babysit would be a terible idea due to the fact that my son has collic, like really bad in the evening and night time. Tonight he was so bad, nothing would calm him down, and he was crying to the point he was gagging himself. It got me so frustrated to the point I too started to cry and realized I could not have my dad babysit and how he would probably be miserable and how I put a burden on him by having to take care of a non-stop crying baby. My boyfriend eventually told me that we just wont go to the paranormal cirque, and that he will just refund the tickets. Well the tickets arent refundable and we paid $145.00 for them. I now feel like I ruined our anniversary by worrying too much about how my dad will feel with our baby, and I also now feel bad for my boyfriend because we wont have the whole fun day we had originally planned.
TL;DR: TIFU by having to cancel non refundable anniversary plans due to my constant worrying of my baby being too collicy for my dad.
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