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TIFU by writing a review about how lost I felt during my guitar private lessons

I've been taking guitar lessons, today was my last lesson and through out the lessons I didn't feel like I've learnt much, the teacher was so nice and friendly but he used to give me random techniques and beats every lesson, and he gave me a book that I thought we would follow, but we barely did, sometimes he used to forget he gave this lesson before and give me the same lesson multiple times but adding some new techniques and beats and as always I didnt feel like I've learnt much, the lessons were kinda a mess, very random, I used to learn way more when I was self-learning. Although my teacher was so friendly and nice (a bit sexist sometimes but that doesnt matter), I never told him how I was feeling lost taking these lessons, I never said anything I acted like I'm learning and moved on every lesson.

Today, when I was in the bus after I finished my last lesson I thought that I have to write a review that describes my experience and everything so I gave them 3 stars and I wrote: "Teachers and people there are so nice and friendly but I felt kinda lost and confused sometimes, the teacher gave me random techniques and beats some exercises but I felt like he sometimes doesn't recognize who I was and what was the last lesson so it was kinda a mess, but it wasn't a bad experience learnt some things but not what I was expecting"

30 mins later one of the teachers called my father (because that's the only number they have), and he said they wish I told them about these things while taking the course and they are upset because that may ruin their reputation and I can take my money back if I felt like they were useless.

I felt so bad after that I felt like a coward because they are right I should've told them about everything from the beginning, I deleted the review and I called them back and I said I was sorry and now I feel like an asshole.

TL;DR: I wrote a bad review about the music centre I used to learn at, and they called me and made me feel like an asshole and a coward because I havent mentioned any of the things I wrote in the review irl, and I think they're right.

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