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To keep this short, I 19 F have a boyfriend, Derek 19 M we’ve been dating for a little over a year now. Derek is the older brother of one of the kids I babysit and he’s really amazing he’s smart kind goofy and I love the relationship that he has with his younger sister. Our only problem is his best friend Destiny CONSTANTLY brings up his ex gf Tiffany. Derek and Tiffany dated for most of their highschool life up until senior year. I’ve met Tiffany and she’s cool and I’m cool too so we’re cool. Destiny tho? Not so cool. Whenever we hang out destiny finds some way to bring up the times when Tiffany and Derek were together i don’t really mind because the stories are funny. One thing that Derek and Tiffany had in common was their love for horses. For his 16th birthday his Dereks dad brought him a horse and he had once brought Tiffany to the ranch where she is to ride her and I honestly think that’s rlly cool and told him that we should definitely do that. I didn’t realize it then but recently when Derek and I were at his house watching a movie he told me if what Destiny was saying bothered me i didn’t have to fake interest and hide it. I told him that i had no idea what he was talking about. And he explained that Destiny was constantly bringing up Tiffany to me to make me jealous. I told him that was ridiculous because while Tiffany is great she’s also a lesbian which is one of the reasons they broke up. I then asked him if he wanted me to be jealous. He took a while to respond but eventually said yes. I couldn’t help it and started laughing bc I love this dude so much but laughing turned out to be the worst choice of action seeing as how he quickly grabbed his coat and left before I could even say anything. I’ve been texting him all night trying to explain that I wasn’t laughing bc i didn’t love him but at the fact that he thinks I’m not jealous. I am, but not of Tiffany of Destiny. Like she’s been his best friend since middle school I can’t compete with a best friend since middle school bc no one can compete with mine.
TL;DR TIFU by laughing during a serious conversation with my boyfriend when he told me he wanted me to feel jealous and might have possibly ruined my relationship with an amazing dude how do i fix this?
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