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TIFU by cheating on my fiancé with my ex

This happened at like 3am today after the nightclub. Long story short last night was our girls night and we planned on bar hopping and getting absolutely shit faced. We ended up at this bar called Crave which just opened up a few weeks ago, once we got there i saw my ex and he had a table with some of his friends. We didn't end on great terms so i just tried avoiding eye contact.

Well the more i drank with my friends the more i kept looking at him and eventually we locked eyes. He came over and we started talking about how things have been, catching up about things and trying to move past the bad breakup. He asked if im single so i told him i just recently got engaged. He seemed happy for me and we kept talking.

The part where i fucked up was not ending the interaction because we kept hanging out and somehow we both went to the same after party. It reminded me of when we used to date and always crash parties together. As the night progressed we got even closer and eventually slept together in one of the extra bedrooms. What i hate most is that it all happened so naturally and i never planned on having sex with him, it's kinda like it just happened randomly and now that im back home i realized what a bitch move that was. I'm not even sure how to tell my fiancé

TL;DR: I saw my ex boyfriend at a nightclub and we eventually started talking. One thing led to another and we went to the same afterparty and slept together. Now I feel extremely guilty because i cheated, i've also never cheated before so idk why i did it

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