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TIFUpate: allowing my coworker to set me up

TIFU by almost get trafficked, I think?

So I’m (20m) not totally sure what could’ve happened, but hence the title I think it was something to do with trafficking. For those familiar with the world of Grindr, it’s pretty much just used for sex and meets. However, catfishing is really big apparently - I wasn’t aware of this.

I did my usual, finishing working at stupidly late then went on Grindr after having a drink to see what’s going on. I’d never met anyone before and I am kind of new to it still. I finally decided to do it and meet someone I found with (19m). They sent me loads of pics/vids and was fairly local and seemed incredibly real. I suggested meeting not them. It was about 4am and seemed like nothing that bad could’ve happened.

When I checked the maps of the location I noticed it was a small neighbourhood street just off of some country lanes, and it was just a loop. My brain did start to freak out about what could’ve happened but I shut it down as just usual overthinking. I drove there, about 10 minutes away, and then waited outside in my car. They said they’d be 2 minutes and after about 10 minutes I got a text asking to keep my window down so they could see it was me when they came out - which I obviously didn’t do.

At that moment I decided it was getting sketchy and I wasn’t gonna wait outside, instead I’d wait round the corner and drive when they said they’re out. But then a car pulls up and almost blocks me in. The guys window was down and he was slightly older and definatly not the same guy. There was a car parked infront of me but I purposely left a gap due to my worries. He tried blocking me and smiles at me but I immediately sped past. I saw his reverse livjts come on just as I turned on my car so I knew he was trying to trap me.

I knew the road was a loop so at the ended I turned the other way thinking he was just going to try block the country lane. But that was a cul de sac. To make the story short I managed to get through the country lanes without seeing him.

At the end of the lanes there was a turn in and I saw the same white car stopped so I drove on the other side of the road to get past and sped off. They didn’t try persue me.

I have endlessly tried to rack my brain as to what was going to happen. It wasn’t just someone else catfishing cause they wouldn’t have lied about being in the house. I don’t know what they would’ve got from trapping me there but this was also a residential road I could’ve just slammed my horn down if anything happened. I genuinely cannot think what it is apart from an attempt at taking me/raping me?

I’ve been trying to think it’s just me being anxious about it but that’s not the case, I really think something bad could’ve happened and I cannot stop thinking about it. I need to make sense of it really.

TL;DR: I went to meet a guy from Grindr but a car pulled up trying to block me in. I think they were probably attempting to do things to me. The whole thing was planned out but I managed to speed away and get home safe. I’m not sure what could’ve happened

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