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TIFU by going on a week long trip with my guy "friends"

Every year I go to a music camp with my guy friends. I flew down to meet them and take a 12 hour long road trip to the music camp. I always thought they were genuine friends and were always very nice to me.

Until this year. This is the first year since I've been going that I am in a serious relationship. My boyfriend knows I am with them and he trusts me. I genuinely just saw these guys as friends. I can now however see that they were only nice to me in the past, in hopes of potentially getting with me.

This time around they're rude af. They look at eachother and start laughing when I say anything. They exclude me and literally say things like "bla bla bla", when I am trying to talk. The way they talk about women in front of me is absolutely atrocious and I've never seen this behavior from them.

Now, I do know that some had a crush on me in the past but I drew boundaries and everything was normal...until I got a boyfriend.

I should've known. I wish they told me they didn't want me part of the trip and I didn't make it all the way down to their ends. I feel so dumb. I was so excited to hangout with my friends and they're treating me like I don't exist, just because I am no longer single. Now before I get comments about why I am hanging out with guys by myself, Ive known them since I was 13- and to me they seemed like brothers to me.

I am sharing an Air bnb with them for 5 more days and I am already not enjoying my time.

TLDR: I decided to spend time with my longterm guy friends but they suddenly treat me pretty shittily just because I am no longer single and drew boundaries

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