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TIFU by asking a guy out infront of my whole grade

it's the beginning of the school year and ive had a crush on this guy we're both in the same grade and he knew that I liked him. I would say likee i'm pretty well known, but he's really popular, and he's never had a talking stage so i felt even more confident 😀

so like we're sending messages between eachother friend group, and i feel like i got the greenlight. but when i would walk by his friendgroup they would giggle a lot. my friends are telling me that they think he's really into me and stuff and feeding into my delusions lol

so i plan to ask him out poster style in school- I got a green poster board and wrote a cute phrase "It would be sweet if you went to sweet frog with me". It was so cute and wholesome , if i could attach a picture i would 💞 ALSO everyone knew that we're a thing now and most of the grade knows im planning to ask him out soon

i'm really confident and bold, so audiences don't really bother me 😛. Anyway in my school, the grades are seperated in the morning so theres no chaos before school starts. one grade sits in the gym, one in the cafeteria, and the oldest sit in the big auditorium. school starts at 8:50 and doors open at like 8:20 and we're free to leave our designated area at 8:38 to go to our lockers n stuff .

i woke up early to put on a cute outfit and my grwm and got my mom drove me and we got a smoothie cus i was really excited, it's like 8:30 now so the auditorium has almost the whole grade in it because the busses came to drop off the kids aswell

so like the auditorium is free seating in the morning - so people sit with their friendgroups and js chill before school starts The auditorium is pretty small and we have 350 people in our grade and there were like 150 kids in there ( it felt like 50 cause the auditorium was a third full) so when you walk in you face the stage - its like a walkway to get closer to the stage. and it's split in half when you get into the middle- like theres a walkway so you can walk to the right side of the auditorium. most of the kids are sitting in the back half of the auditorium, and the popular kids sit on the right side of that half. Me and my friends are sitting in the rows a little ahead of them. also like twenty kids are sitting in the front half so like almost everyone has a clear view of what im about to do .

atp im gettin really nervous because i can feel him and his friends eyes on me. my 2 besties are giving me reassurance and now i can feel the whole grade looking at me. His friends are making a lot of noise and im kinda screaming with my friends soo the whole grade is watching us. they're realizing what's about to happen and start getting up to record. now i feel pressured to hurry up and do the proposal. and i hold up my sign to show my math teacher and she compliments it but his friends make him go down the walkway and i hold up my sign for him to read. he shook his head no and didn't even say anything . th en the whole auditorium erupts and as cliche as this sounds i walk out holding my face. there's also a crowd blocking the way bc people got out of there seat to watch and there were kids coming in who just got dropped off. i dont really remember what happens after this but the teachers start following me and im bawling my eyes out in the office.

my friends didn't even run after me and defend me, some were also recording aswell. also there were like 40+ people recording and i saw some people post it on their snapchat story

i know this sounds straight out of a movie but it really did happen if i could upload a vdieo to show you guys i would bc i don't know what to do.

i wasnt allowed to go home because no one was there to pick me up so i had to deal with the rest of the school day and my friends came up to me after the incident and were telling me at lunch what happened after. the teachers immeadietly dismissed everyone because it was REALLY LOUD. like everyone was screaming and yelling i tried asking them what people were saying/posting but they just looked at me and brushed it off .

the next day they banned using phones in the morning and the teachers threatened everyone to take down the vids bc theres a list of everyone who recorded . they also put up the foldable barrier thing to seperate the back half to the front half of the auditorium and they were seperating the kids and there were multiple staff watching the grade

after all this chaos, im really embarrassed abt what happened but i'm rlly thankful for my teachers bc they had my back after all this chaos. i feel much more calm and i'm not scared of them lol, like they literally said that he was inlove with me and obsessed with me and stuff . but they're really mad that he got in trouble because he apparently didn't do anything wrong and he didn't have to accept, which yeah i agree but i felt like played me and his friends were pressuring me to ask him out so i'm just really confused.

TLDR: i asked a guy out who liked me with a poster and he rejected me infront of the whole grade- now the whole grade hates me

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