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TIFU by having drinks with my neighbour

I (early 20s F) live in a house divided into a triplex, I have lived here for about 6 months and haven’t talked much with either of the other tenants. When I was outside another tenant, my neighbour, (30s M) and one of his friends were also outside. They invited me over for drinks and I accepted… I went over and chatted with him and his friends, male and female. We were all having a good time and it was about a 12 pack later that we both got flirty and I was sitting on the couch with him with my legs over his. One thing led to another and we went to his room. We hooked up and eventually made our way back out to the living room. I fell asleep on the couch wearing his clothes and realizing I’d left my phone in his room. I needed my phone as I worked that day and needed my own clothes. When I went back into his room he woke up and we chatted a bit about the night. All positive. I ended up staying in his room for a bit and we hooked up again, we fell back asleep before my alarm work me up again. We talked about the situation and he even suggested hanging out again. At the time I didn’t feel much way about it as I was still drunk. I left and later in the afternoon I texted trying to feel out the situation as I sobered up, saying thanks for having me over we should do drinks again and so on, when he replied he mentioned he had fun and was just hanging out for the day. I think that because I was still intoxicated in the morning I didn’t fully grasp the situation and after sobering up I realized it may have made my living situation pretty awkward. I love where I live and plan on being here for awhile however I don’t want this to change anything.

TL;DR: I drunkenly hooked up with a guy in my complex and think it may have made the living situation awkward.

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