TIFU She blocked me for "ruining her life"... then begged me to meet her mom three days later. WTF?

When I first met my ex, she used to invite me to eat cake with her and her friends. It felt cute and simple in the beginning. But everything got messy so fast.

We had a video call once. She never wanted to show her face. Always said her hair was “a mess.” Later, she told me she had autism. According to her.

Our conversations were mostly one-sided. We planned to meet at the park, but she canceled, saying she hurt her leg. She told me her ex abandoned her. That another guy left her for someone else. I tried to be there for her.

Then one day, I got robbed and almost lost her number. I noticed she didn’t care at all. She even said she wouldn’t text me anymore unless I texted her first.

She talked a lot about her cats and her nephews with autism. She got extremely angry when her cousin mentioned she used to drink with her ex.

Later, I invited her to the movies because she always said we never went out. At first, she said no because she was embarrassed. Then she said yes. The next day, she suddenly said, “Maybe we should just be friends?”

We still went anyway. We kissed during the movie. Spent the afternoon together. But she never wanted me to see her phone. Refused to give me her Instagram. She only gave it to me after we broke up.

Another time we went to the mall. She gave me chocolate and we ended up at a motel. But the moment we got there, she said she was “ashamed” and didn’t want the lights on. I said it was fine. Her mood instantly shifted anyway.

She never wanted me to meet her family. Once, when her sister dropped her off at my place, I joked about how we never went out because she was always “acting distant.” She got furious.

The emotional rollercoaster never stopped. We’d play games together, and if I criticized the game, she’d get mad and quit. She’d bring me chocolate and then suddenly talk about breaking up.

She invited me to a party, then said she wasn’t going, then said she was again. When I asked if she didn’t want me there, she said she did… but made it very clear I could only arrive at exactly 6 PM.

I arrived a bit early anyway. Her sister saw me and invited me up. We went to her friend’s party. She introduced me as her boyfriend. And then, out of nowhere, she said: "Should we download an app to find you a hot girl?"

After the party, we went back to her place. She wanted me to sleep over, but I went home.

Eventually, I called her and ended things. She cried, blocked me, and then said I ruined her happiness and “sent her to therapy.” Days later, she texted me saying she missed me more than she expected.

We started talking again.

Then I found her on a dating app. She said she was “just looking for her friend’s ex.” I got upset. Told her I loved her. She said she wished I was there with her. She called me, invited me to her mom’s birthday party. I didn’t go.

Her mom called me, asking if I loved her daughter. Even invited me for coffee.

After that, we tried talking again, but she told me her dad was angry at me. I felt horrible and vented online. She found out. Accused me of using her. Said I lied. Said she acted that way because she was insecure, autistic, and prayed for me every single day.

Then she blocked me. And disappeared.

Now I can’t stop thinking…

What would you do? Is this normal?

TL;DR: I fell for a girl who kept me in an endless emotional rollercoaster. She said she had autism, constantly canceled plans, hid her phone, avoided introducing me to her family, and played hot-and-cold all the time. One moment she kissed me at the movies, the next she suggested we “just be friends.” She’d block me, come back saying she missed me, then I’d catch her on dating apps. After months of mixed signals, drama with her family, and being accused of “ruining her happiness,” she blocked me for good and vanished.