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TIFU by being socially awkward and accidentally looking racist😭

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TIFU by being too shy to sit on a bench because some members of a sweet Moroccan family were standing up and i sat on the ground looking racist.

So basically I went to catch a bus and at the station there was this nice Moroccan family i asked if the bus is at 17:00. They said yes, i thanked them and then the mom told the kids to move a little to give me a space to sit on a bench. I felt bad to sit there because the mom was standing and we had to wait for another 30 minutes for the bus to arrive. I politely said "Oh, no, don't worry" and walked a meter or two to stand there and not invide their space.

But there's a problem, i am wearing heels (bad idea if you're going to walk pretty much, i know) so my feet were BURNING. I couldn't keep standing there because I was IN PAIN. But i couldn't go and sit on the bench either because i already declined the offer and it would be awkward. I tried standing on my heels only but it still hurt. So i decided to do the only thing i could: i walked one more meter and sat on the edge of the sidewalk.

And only then, after i noticed the Moroccan mom giving me a side eye, I froze because I realized that it looked like I would rather sit on the ground than sit on the same bench with them.

I'm not racist, I am just socially awkward and shy and also I'm afraid of making people uncomfortable so if there were literally any people on that bench I'd do the same... Now i look like a fucking racist. Great

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