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TIFU by telling by boyfriend what style to avoid for my engagement ring.

So today we went out and had planned to confirm my ring size at Zales via me trying to see if a current ring could be sized. Sales guy confirmed my size and let me know multiple times that the ring I had couldn’t be resized. My boyfriend tells me to go shop. I call my best friend as I’m losing my shit at whatever shop I went into. Well I calm down and focus on the task at finding new clothes for a job I start Tuesday. We meet up and I probe if he found anything. He jokes that he just dropped 5k and then says no, I didn’t buy anything today. I’m gullible enough to believe him. And then after lunch it occurs to me that since he’s still shopping, I should let him know what to avoid since we never actually had the conversation. (Context: I was married once before and it was a terrible relationship/marriage. I simply wanted whatever he got to be completely new and unique like our relationship. I have no beef with the style of stone and quite like it actually.)

So I casually bring up the topic and show him a photo of the style and he froze. I immediately realized I fucked up and that he already bought a ring with that style.

TL;DR I fucked up by telling my bf what style to avoid on an engagement ring he already bought earlier. I’m happy to announce the ring in question is exquisite and we are happily engaged.

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