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TIFU by planning my husband's 40th birthday party

It's a few weeks before my husband's 40th birthday, we don't usually have big parties, but 40 is special and I want to throw him a big surprise party to celebrate. So I have been planning a big party. I don't have all the numbers of his friends though so I was making a guest list, I secretly checked his phone to get their numbers for the invite.

When I opened his contacts though, I noticed a strange text he had sent a few weeks ago. It read, "Hello, I was wondering if you have any availability tonight? Possibly, late night? Thank you."

"Incall or outcall"

"Incall for after midnight"

This text exchange had occurred when he was on a business trip.

Yep, this was obviously in relation to scheduling an indiscretion... Confused and worried, I started shaking uncontrollably as looked through more of his messages and discovered more messages.

Feeling betrayed and heartbroken with my life shattered into a million pieces, I confronted him about it. I showed him the messages and asked him to explain himself.

At first, he tried to deny it and make excuses. But as I pushed him for answers, he finally broke down and admitted the truth. He's been secretly struggling with an addiction to porn and prostitutes for years. Though he claims he never actually followed through with anything in person, but I can't believe his words now.

So TIFU my life by planning my husband's 40th birthday party.

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TL;DR Planned a surprise birthday bash for husband, discovered infidelity on phone when getting numbers for the invite.

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