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TIFU by breaking up with my girlfriend to get back with someone

TIFU, I’ll give some back story a few months ago I got with A but we didn’t work out so then I met a new girl K, we quickly dated. We were dating for a few months until A came back but the thing was I was unsure if I wanted to persue A. Anyways K was at a party and some things happened to her but she didn’t say much, I’m sure she didn’t cheat by my close friends think so. Anyways I’ve had a lot of pressure from my friends to break up with K and get back with A. There’s a lot I like about K but my friends don’t like her and think I can do better, my family thinks I should break up with K if I have doubts over our relationship. Anyways here’s where the fuck up happens, after a lot of pressure from my friends and a big fight over K’s party incident I broke up with her and my friend is already trying to get me with A. But here’s the thing I already feel heartbroken and regret, idk if it’s because we broke up or because I genuinely don’t want to break up with K, I do love K and she was my first girlfriend as well, but I think I do have slight feelings for A. This situation just feels wrong. Any advice would be appreciated.

Edit: At no point did i say K cheated and I don’t think she cheated but she was hiding details about the incident at the party. And also the influence from my friends wasn’t the only reason we were fighting over the fact she wouldn’t tell me details about her incident at her party.

TL;DR. TIFU by breaking up with my girlfriend for someone else my friends have been trying to get me with but I already feel regret.

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