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TIFUpate: allowing my coworker to set me up

TIFU by accidently abandoning my girlfriend at music festival

M63 her 66. Both in pretty good shape not what you would call even close to feeble.

I'm 5'6 140 lbs. We've been together for 9 months.

We had a big breakfast around noon.

Arrived at the festival about 6:00p I had a couple of chicken wings and some BBQ samples

I drank a 24 oz craft beer, 24 oz Margarita style malt beverage, a quarter pint of vodka and a couple of puffs.

The final concert ended (10p).

Before we left, I told her I wanted to hit the bathroom. I asked her to wait for me in a golf cart close by. For some reason I didn't meet her back at the golf cart.

I didn't realize my mistake until I walked about half the festival toward the exit.
I tried calling her five times before I remembered she didn't bring her phone.

So, I made my way to the exit point of the festival hoping to run into her.

We rode together, but she's not good at downtown so I'm not sure if she remembered where we parked.

I thought maybe she would borrow someone's phone and call me

but in this modern era I'm not sure that she knows my number because it's stored in her phone.

Luckily someone in a golf cart gave her a ride to the front gate and we met up.

Immediate crisis averted.

But now I'm worried on two levels:

What the f*** happened to me that I forgot that I had left my date until I was halfway out the festival.

Will this damage our relationship in the long term because she will feel that I can't take care of her in a crisis?

So, should I bring this incident up and apologize with flowers and stuff

or

should I hope she forgets about it?

TL;DR: Are there some social accidents you can't recover from and it's best to break-up now ?

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