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TIFU by resigning while i was mad and arguing with the HR.

I'm a student, who has a full time job. I pay for my education. I live alone and i've been financially independent since i was 18.

Yesterday, while working i heard the HR arguing with my coworkers, later on she called me and ask me to go into her office so i did. She started shouting at me for absolutely no reason. Started accusing me of coming in late etc.. I started arguing with her, it was pretty bad. Both of us were screaming. I was unprofessional with her for the 1st time in almost 3 years. She was very picky with her words but also very disrespectful. She told me to come earlier than i should the enxt day knowing i had 4 university classes.

I told her I'm not coming and that i want my salary and i want to quit. So she said "you're not getting your salary and you can contact our lawyers". So i said sure yet we kept arguing. The auditor started trying to calm us down and so did another coworker. We kept going for over 30 mins. I was literally shaking, she started talking about my salary and trying to make me feel guilty about shit that weren't my fault. Twisting every word i sad and trying to manipulate me and everyone around.

I still want to quit cause she was mad disrespectful, and i have too much pride to let anyone disrespect me while i wasn't even doing anything wrong. Not even for my own fault just because she was mad at someone else and she let it out on me.

They don't want me to quit, management trying to sweet talk me and even the HR tried to do that as well later on. I do the work of 3 employees while i don't get paid enough.

TL;DR i resigned after an argument with the HR and I'm not sure if i should keep going with it or not, i need the money for my education yet I don't want to stay in this toxic environment.

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