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TIFU by asking out a married woman with 2 kids

I 18f asked to meet up with this woman whom I thought was around my age group but she's much older and is both married with two kids. I started talking to her last semester we shared around 3 classes and she's very pretty and like decisive. (We were in a group together and the lecturer almost failed us but she confronted them) any who we weren't really super duper close aside from a few greetings and playful rants about uni.

Today I thought you know what the semester over why not ask her to hang so I did and she took a while to answer so got scared she thought I was weird so I deleted it but since it's WhatsApp she saw it and sent a question mark. So I said oh I just asked if we could meet up but since we're not very close I thought you would think it was weird. She said it was no problem and asked if I went out during evenings I said no cause my dad was super strict. This when she told me that I should tell my dad I was with a married woman so he shouldn't worry.

I thought she was joking but she was dead ass she told she was 35 that she's been married for 8 years and has two kids. I'm so shocked but most of all idk how I'm supposed to tell her I don't want to meet up anymore 😭

TL;DR I asked out this much older married woman with kids and I wanna back out but I don't want to be rude. Not romantically I want more friends my age cause I haven't had a really close friend since i was 12

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