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My (22f) best friend's (f21) birthday is today 30th jan, birthdays are sacred to her and she threw me a great party on my birthday, I know I'm in the wrong here because I was at her place yesterday and I got an emergency call and had to go home, in the midst of all the things that happened back home it slipped my mind that it was her birthday, and I fell asleep without giving her a call or texting her. Today, the moment I woke up I texted her "HAPPY BIRTHDAY 😘😘" and she replied with a "thank u" I knew I fup the moment I got that text because its so not like her. So at like noon I called her and she said she was at a friend's house so I said okay and hung up. Next thing I know that friend she was at called me and said that she is pissed because we forgot about her and don't care about her at all, so we went to her place and she is livid, she doesn't want to talk to us and is saying that she thinks that she probably doesn't want us to be in her life anymore. The thing is we are university students and we are in an exam period and her and I talked about her birthday before and we decided to do it after the exams. I apologized profusely to her and told her about what happened yesterday and she said that was no excuse. I don't know what to do and I need advice. so please reddit, Help?
tldr; forgot about my best friend's birthday and she wants nothing to do with me , help? sorry for formatting on mobile.
edit: She talked to me, she said and i quote " youre only pretending to be my friend for personal intrest and I mean nothing to you, you only need me in the exams to help you out " I don't know what to say, I thought our friendship was worth more, and honestly I never ask for help in the exams, I dont know what to say, I just never asked for help, I mean yeah we study together but thats about it, I guess the issue was deeper than I thought, and I guess this is the end of a friendship I thought would last a lifetime, I'm sorry to take up you good people's time, and thanks for all the replys, I guess I'll get drunk, cry, and go to sleep. Thank you all
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