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TIFU by saying my gf would be fat if she'd weigh 80 kg

So today in the evening i was hanging out with my wonderful gf and it was super fun, but at some point she started saying that she looks awful and that she's fat. I immediately started hugging her and telling her that she's beautiful and hot and told her that i love her a lot and that i wanna always be with her. She denied stuff with her being beautiful and said she's fat again, even though she's 164 cm tall and wieghs 60 kg. That's not even overweight. And i told her that "she'd be fat if she weighed 80 kg" and she got even more sad and started saying that i love her only for her looks and that i wouldn't love her if she'd weigh this much.. i told her that i love her mostly for her amazing character, i always told her that, but she didn't listen. I tried to explain her that i meant that if she wieghed 80 kg then she'd be overweight, while she's not right now, she didn't listen. I guess it was a poor choice of words and dumb thing to say.. i truly regret making her feel bad because of it, she's the best thing in my life. I apologized for saying this stuff and she still didn't listen. I want to make it up to her, though. I'd like to read some comments what y'all think Abt it, appreciate every comment and opinion. TL;DR

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