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This didnt happen today but it happened over a few days and it backfired yesterday. She lives in a different country cause her parents work there and she comes over for vacation
3 days ago my best friend(16F) told me(16M) that her boyfriend was very clingy and wanted to spend a lot of time with her. She said that it made her uncomfortable and she didnt have time for herself. She asked me what should she do.
I told her to explain to him that she needed some time for herself and learn to comunicate trough their problems. I feelt like it was clear enough for her and didnt think much about it.
Fast forward to yesterday. They were messaging each other and she ended up telling him she wants to come here for the winter holydays.
Him- "Can I come too. I will pay for myself"
Her- "No"
Him- "But why?"
Her- "I dont want you to come here. I want to spend some times only with my friends"
He got sad after that. She tried to explain but he would only say "Yes" or "I understand". He ended up saing he will go to sleep and didnt message anything anymore.
She left the country today. Hopefully they meet up and manage to work it out.
TL;DR I tried to teach my best friend to comunicate with her boyfriend but ended up making her boyfriend sad
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