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TIFU by checking my husband's messages

I have been feeling my husband distant and couldn't help but to check his phone, as I was afraid something was wrong and he wasn't telling me to spare me (we have been trying to have kids and I have been feeling pretty low) I ended up checking a conversation of him with a work friend who he had show me. He made her lots of compliments and I thought it was weird but didn't make big of a case. At least I tried for a while. The messages wouldn't leave my thoughts and ended up scrolling further. I discovered he had lied about a work dinner he recently had. He had told me he would leave work at 21 and go to said dinner. I ended up finding he actually had left work at 18 and stayed an hour simply waiting for this friend. This hurted my feelings as he knows I have severe prblmes being alone and he could have come home and return aylt the hour of the dinner. He also made arrangements to give her a ride. He had told me he had given a ride to someone but not her. Even after this I didn't want to assume the worst but the thougth was present. I ended up asking if he had something he wanted to tell me. I expected lots of responses but not the one I got. He ended up telling me he was actually in love with that coworker..... Truly do not know how to feel...... We have been married since August. We have been together for five years and married this year due to my health problems. To add to the pile we made a matching tattoo earlier this month.

TL: DR Checked my husband's messages and now might get a divorce.

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