TIFU by saying her BJ's "Aren't that good"

Obligatory this happened many moons ago and I'm using a throwaway account.

We were away from home staying with a friend couple. We've all been out on the town with them for the evening, and had returned their apartment for a little after-party / wind-down before bedtime.

We were outside on their porch drinking and smoking and making a light-hearted jokes about what happens after marriage (we were all planning to get married fairly soon). The guys are lamenting the "no more BJ's after marriage" trope. The ladies are playing along, lamenting the "inevitable loss of romance and chivalry".

My lady says something along the lines of she can't give me too many [BJ's] or I won't want the real thing *wink wink*. Playful-like, suggesting maybe I'll get the real thing later.

Here's the FU; in my incredibly drunken and slightly embarrassed state I blurted out, "You're BJ's aren't THAT good."

Immediate recognition of what nastiness just leapt from my face. I tried to stutter out an explanation, something along the lines of your sex is so much better, a BJ could never compete, trying desperately to find the keys to my backhoe of stupidly, but the damage was done and there was no saving this dumpster fire.

My lady, obviously hurt, took her friend and went inside the apartment. My buddy just looked at me with his jaw open. We stood there in silence for a few minutes carefully retracing the idiocy that just occurred. He eventually says, "welp, that one's gonna sting for a while." When we eventually retire inside, party is over, and I receive nothing but cold shoulder until the morning.

TLDR; in trying to say oral can't compete with her sex-game, I wound up saying her BJ's weren't that good. She still married me, but it's been over ten years since the FU, and I haven't received a BJ since.