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TIFU by sleeping with a girl crushing on me even though I'm gay.

Edit: Thank you all for your responses and advice. I'll keep you updated but sadly won't be able to reply to everything :)

Actually, it wasn't today but four days ago.

So I (19m) was at a party four days ago. Like at any other party, there were lots of drinks and stuff, and of course I took a few. I think there I took something that I didn't have before and after that I don't remember anything from the night until I woke up.

When I woke up, this one girl (19f let's call her Melanie) was on me undressed and I was undressed too. I think I don't have to go in detail there. Even though I was repulsed, I came, that's maybe where I'm at fault too.

My friends told me the next morning that they saw Melanie taking me in a room with her. Melanie has confessed her feelings for me a few weeks ago, but I'm gay and she knew that too, so I don't know why she acted so surprised when I rejected her.

Now Melanie has been wanting to start a relationship. She said, I must've liked it and her because I came. That's not true. I'm very confident that I'm gay and I feel no attraction towards her. I fear that she is pregnant.

TL;DR: Was at a party, had sex with girl even though I'm gay, she now wants relatioship and may be pregnant.

This is posted on my friends reddit because my family knows my reddit account.

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