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TIFU by going to a school dance

This happened five years ago now. I went to an all girls high school, and I wanted to go to football games and dances so I could meet boys. However, my best friend never wanted to go to any of these events, so I never went either. Halfway through our senior year of high school, the winter formal dance was coming up. I really wanted to go to the dance, because I had never gone before. However, my best friend wasn’t going to go. I had no one close enough to go with, except for some girls that my best friend didn’t like because she got into an argument with one of them about a year prior.

I felt really uncomfortable telling her about this, but I informed her of my plan to go to the dance. I reassured her that she would be my first choice to go to the dance; but I don’t have anyone else that I could possibly go with. My best friend seemed okay with it so she told me to have fun and take lots of pictures. So I went to the dance and that was fun.

But next week at school, she was acting weird. She stop sitting with me at lunch. She avoided me. And most of our classes, we sat together, but she deliberately sat on the other end of the room. There will be times where she would leave the room or the general area if she saw I was there. This went on for about a month. She kind of gave a half assed apology after, but our friendship never truly recovered.

Graduated high school I didn’t want to talk to that girl anymore. But she kept texting me. I thought she would’ve backed off by now, but she hasn’t. And now that she’s come back from college she always wants to hang out. Like literally every weekend if not every other weekend. And the thing is she always wants to go to my house and she’ll overstay her welcome and she’ll stay until like 10 or 11 at night sometimes.

Tl;dr: my introverted friend, didn’t want to go to the school dance, and I didn’t have anyone to go with except some girls she really didn’t like. So my best friend spread rumors about me and completely destroyed my reputation.

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