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TIFU by forgetting about chats from years ago

So just to be fair some of the things are not exactly years ago but at least 1yr+ but pretty much the same.

Today when I was sleeping my fiance(ex fiance now ig) was going through my phone and found some old chats of mine, I just installed back a messages app cause I was scrolling through some 2nd hand helmets in marketplace, but forgot that was the app where I used to talk with my ex. Don't get me wrong, ofc I deleted the conversation with her BUT I had a chat with MYSELF in there (yk just for writing the shopping list or whatever) but I also had some pictures in there I completely forgot, so you know where I'm going.

I had pictures with my ex in there, like normal pics of course so that made my fiance think it was okay to keep going until she saw her naked and stuff and well the reaction wasn't pretty tbh (no shit right). I feel really guilty and I know since then our relationship was f up. We just started dating a year ago and those pictures were 3years+ but I understand it still hurts, also she found some chats of when we "broke up" for a while and I was venting to a friend or stuff but I was in fact really mean bc I thought she was cheating on me. That was only weeks or almost a month after we first met but she says she would never talk so badly about me to anyone and I believe her. We were about to move together and were already planning the wedding and stuff, I want to fight for her but I can tell she won't be the same at least for a while and idk what to do.

TLDR: Forgot about a chat where I had naked pictures of my ex and basically ruined my relationship for being too confident that I had nothing to hide 🙃

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