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TIFU by trusting my gf

My(m25) gf (w23) was on vacation for 2 weeks few months ago, we lived together in my apartment for almost 6 months atm, only 1 month before we lived separate, she was there whole time and sometimes she playing sims and Hogwarts on my PC where I had my telegram but I keep it closed while away, but she opened it up at her last day while I was at work and read through my chats and found out that I had some messages on month we started dating from my female friend from another country about how we met on rave and just what we felt about it for a few months when I was there (more than year before current relationship), we chit chat a little bit about it and then we didn't talk for another few months and so we keep it like that, but my gf found that out and we argued about it for like week, she almost moved out in first days, like I said there was nothing like I'm cheating but she thought this was flirt and she didn't like it but we, how I thought, figured all out and it was okey for those few months

and to the point for what I fucked up today, I said that I made an appointment to be a sperm donor, there is some benefits (free check-up + some money) and I didn't even think it can be bad, but she said she feels negative about it and I did have to talk with her firstly and so she brought up this past argue and that she is not confident in me now since this issue still hurting her

I have my thoughts about it but I want to know someone else's opinion about it

tl;dr: my gf gets in my telegram and found me "flirting" with girl from another country, gets mad about it and then after few months I said I'd like to be a sperm donor so she brought up past issue and gets mad at me again

also sorry for my English I'm just learning it and not communicate in it at all

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