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TIFU by chatting with an old coworker till 4am

So essentially a friend/old coworker (S) of mine who was visiting from out of town whom I haven’t seen in almost 2 years decided that we should hang out with another one of our old coworkers (J) whom I also haven’t seen in about a year. We all were talking til around 2 am in a random park, we were laughing and talking about old times about our shitty job we all used to work at and just having a generally great time.

I had left my phone in my car and my fiancé was trying to get ahold of me while also messaging my friend S, she responded and told him we were all just chilling at a park etc. this whole time I knew my fiancé had my location so he wouldn’t have to worry about stuff like that. Anyway we decide to drop S off back home because she has a train to catch in the morning and then it was just me and J. We used to be really close at our old job and would talk about saltwater fish keeping and whatnot.

He hasn’t seen me since forever and was asking me about my fiance and how are things. We decided to park on the roof of my current work place just to chill and talk, we were still strapped in with seat belts and had our arms crossed just chatting about life. At this point I hadn’t gotten a text from my fiance since 1am so I assumed he was sleeping so I didn’t want to bother him, I didn’t get a call or anything and since he had my location he would know I’m safe. So we’re talking and a car pulls up on us and it’s my fiance. He takes one look at us and gives me the finger and drives off. Then he comes back and starts calling me a cheating bitch and to come get my stuff from his place.

I obviously break down because what the hell? I was sitting in a car just talking about life and about him and how much we get along and the ups and the downs just general life updates. My fiance then calls me and was just saying really nasty things to me, so I kept telling him that nothing was happening and that he literally has the wrong idea and if he would have called or messaged me asking what I was doing parked at my work I would have told him.

Even J was trying to tell him that literally nothing was going on and that he pulled up on us sitting down and just talking. Anyway. Now my fiancé is convinced I’m a cheater, wants me out of his life and I don’t know how to get him to realize that literally nothing happened and we were just coworkers/friends catching up and lost track of time.

TL;DR my fiance thinks I’m a cheater when I was just chatting with a coworker that I haven’t seen or talked to in over a year about life updates.

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