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TIFU by falling for a girl who has a boyfriend

Hello everybody, 20sM here, never had anything interesting enough to post but now this just about qualifies.

Little backstory, was in a relationship/trauma bond for basically all my developmental years and only came out of it 6 months ago, so still adjusting/struggling/coping, aswell as qualification pressure, family issues and other fun things. So I'm not in a good headspace.

This girl texts me related to a post I had made about a month ago. We start chatting and we relate in a lot of ways, she's lovebombing me hard (didnt realise at first) and thabks to my lovely mental state at the moment, my dopamine and oxytocin went in overdrive(realised later after some introspection). I had properly fell for her. We're talking, laughing, bonding, making plans...

Then she tells me she has a boyfriend and blocks me. Great. Right? I tell myself it is what it is and go about my life, trying very hard to understand why I acted the way I did and cemented my stance on why girls are scary at this point in my life. After some introspection I realised the lovebombing and how I fell for it, hook line and sinker.

Couple days later, I can't sleep, I'm just doomscrolling, and I get a message from a familiar person. I, being messed up and with crazy hormones indulge, despite telling myself it's wrong, I shouldn't, it's too early after my last "relationship". But alas, I'm only human. We sext and she blocks me again! So now I'm really fucked up, realise I just got used and she's probably been doing this to her boyfriend for a while with a bunch of fools just like me. And then I get a message here on reddit from another account telling me to die and some other fun things, and also things only her or I would know. And there's no point blocking because it's clearly a very new account. Fun. This girl also knows my full name, that was probably the biggest fuck up.

Edit: accidentally posted twice, one has now been deleted, sorry for any confusion

TL;DR: gets led on by girl, used for attention, bf finds out, some crazy cyberstalking and harassment follow.

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