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TIFU. By accusing a Russian guy of being a predator

So im 16 (male) and I really messed up to the point I almost ended a possible 10 year relationship. What happened was im at my cousin's house for a sleepover and we just got back from doing the shopping and we were sitting on the couch when my sister who is 11yrs old was talking about she was playing with a 20yrs old man on a roblox game and even had him added on discord which had me concerned and disgusted as to why 20 yr old would talk to an 11 yr old on discord which made me really worried. So I asked her to show me who this guy was and the messages that I saw where along the lines of him saying "hello wsg child" and my sister texting him to stop calling her that and I immediately told her to send me his username so I can friend him and lie about me being a ten yr old so I can catch him out which ended up being the worst mistake I had done as it turns out he wasn't a predator but also he is gay and has a bf which he had been with since the 6th grade and he lived in Russian and I felt a wave of guilt rush over me and I felt so bad and so my stupid ass suggested we call to clear the air which almost lasted about 30 minutes and I was just me saying im sorry over and over again and he saying he doesn't blame me as he would've done the same and me saying I found it weird with an 20yr old talking with an 11 yr old just caught me off guard. But thats not the worst part as if told me his bf was lookin at his screen share on discord and saw the messages on me falsely accusing him of being a pedophile and that made so guilty as he got made at him and asked all different types of questions and I just wanted to die right there and whats even more worse he babysit children almost everyday and I realized I almost destroyed this guy's life over a false accusation and man does this make me an asshole.

He then proceeded to tell me that in Russia dating people from the outside preferably black people they get caught off from all family cause their parents are very racist so that was my first lesson on Russian families atleast his wasn't homophobic. Im currently in communication with him and will update when I get more information. He also mention his phone recorded phone calls so he will send it to his bf and explain everything then.

TLDR

I almost destroyed a guys life and almost made him lose his bf and family cause I accused him of being a pedophile.

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