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TIFU by giving my friend a mental decline potentially.

Do NOT say anything rude to me or him, I'm not in the mood. And no, he did not directly say "THIS IS ALL YOUR FAULT" or act attention-seeking or anything, I'm just thinking I fucked up.

I (19F) have this one friend online (18FtM). Let's call him "Brandon". Brandon is really sweet, and sometimes I do enjoy talking to him... but lately he's been pissing me off and making me unexplainably angry so I started acting dry to him.

You know, one-word responses, periods at the end of my messages, the usual.

Well, eventually, Brandon texted me, asking if I HATED him and if he did something wrong. I told him I don't care what he has to say, that he was disrespecting my boundaries by talking to me all the time instead of once a week or so, and that he was pissing me off and should please quit it and shut up.

Brandon got really upset, from what I can assume. He just texted "...Fine." even though I tried to be nice yet honest.

He hasn't spoken to me since, and I found a recent post of his saying that he was having a panic attack, he felt like a bad person, and another post saying he felt extremely depressed yet euphoric in a crazy way at the same time.

Is my friend just mentally ill? I'd like to think he is, I refuse to think it could have been my fault entirely just for being honest to him. I want to tell him everything's OK, but I'm already going without contact with him for now.

TL;DR: My (19F) friend (18FtM) has trauma and attachment issues along with various mental conditions. I told him he was pissing me off by texting me and how I really felt about our friendship, so he texted me a dry "...Fine." and stopped talking to me completely???? Then, I saw his posts, and he kept talking about being super euphoric but depressed and feeling guilty, and feeling crazy and all that??? It couldn't have been my fault but part of me thinks I fucked up.

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