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TIFU by misunderstanding my girlfriend leading to a break up

So I met this girl on tinder. we lived a good distance apart but we started going on dates in February. we had been meeting regularly for about three months and been intimate. Our dates were fun and i liked her as a person. Despite this we were having trouble holding conversations. Our interests did not align at all and we kept trying to introduce the other to our hobby but it wasn't for us. Still this was my first relationship in a while so I figured these things take time.

Yesterday we went on a really fun date. Go karts and laser tag progressed to movie and making out then we had sex. After when we were cuddling she says, "how would you feel if I started seeing other guys?" This is NOT my fetish and not a relationship dynamic I would like but as I say we never really hit it off so I thought ok she wants to go back on tinder. Ie breaking up

I said "I guess I would understand but I wouldn't be able to stay in that kind of relationship."

She asked what I meant I understood and I said pretty much what I did here. About halfway through explaining she said she really wanted to know whether I saw a future with her. Best guess she asked if she could see other guys so I would get defensive and ask her to take the relationship to the next level. Instead we broke up and somehow I'm the asshole cause we had sex before this talk.

To be clear I would have tried to make it work a while longer or at least done it a better way but I was so blindsided I just kept saying I was sorry but you can't take that back.

TL;DR this girl asked me to go steady in a weird way I I thought she was breaking up with me. So I did it by accident

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