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TIFU by going to a concert

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Okay so you need a little context for this. I (18F) went to a concert with my friend (18X) (my friends is non-binary but afab so no one throws a fit thinking I was out with a dude). This concert was more they have a guest and they play music from a certain genre. This concert was just emo music. I have a bf (18M) we have been together almost 2 years. And we live together (I am at my parents house currently). This concert was a last decision like me and my bestie decided to go a day before it happened (it's a 18+ event). My bf did know I was going to this concert. (I don't ask approval to go to these things but he appreciates that I tell him) I showed my bf my outfit and he said he liked it. So we went and it was fun. I got on stage and had a great time. I sent my bf videos and pictures and he didn't reply which isn't a big deal. Just assumed he was on games.

This morning I woke up to text him again. He hasn't replied which still isn't a big deal just assumed he went to bed and forgot to reply and he doesn't tend to wake up till 3-4 ish on the weekends anyway. So no biggy again. But later I notice his Instagram is completely gone. I thought he blocked me at first. So I asked my brother to call him and a few friends to see if I was blocked or his account was gone. His account was deleted or disabled. So I got to text his number asking what's up and if he is okay. He doesn't reply for hours but then replies he is alive. He said I caused him a big panic attack last night. I asked why and he won't tell me till I see him tonight. He said not to text him.

Now I definitely think this was over my outfit. Me and plenty of other people didn't have tops on (just bras no boobs flying out). But the thing is I always dress like this. He knows I tend to dress on the more. slutty side but with the guest they had at the concert plenty of other people were less dressed then me. He knows this is how I dressed and has never expressed he doesn't like how I dress or brought up any concerns besides the fact some things I have worn didn't match.

I'm just assuming we are going to have a fight about this. But I won't change the way I dress and how I present myself. He has said in the past he doesn't really like tattoos or piercings but he doesn't mind them on me and likes how they look.

And before anyone says "you were trying to hook up with people" yeah no. I personally can't really even make friendships with men. He is lucky I like him enough lmao. And I would say most of the crowd was women. I only talked to a few guys and the guys I did talk to literally had their obvious girlfriends with them which I also talked to or were people working! I left right after the show was over didn't talk to anybody besides my friend.

I guess I want some advice? Or help me when we do talk later. I cry at confrontation and have a hard time standing my ground. I don't plan on breaking up with him and don't want to.

TL;DR boyfriend possibly mad at me for what I wore to a concert even though I dress like that around him and in public. Soon to be possible fight later.

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