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TIFU by being polite to my ex’s friend

I work at a bank and today I noticed one of my ex’s friends was at one of the tellers. We ended on good terms and I always got along with his friends but like I only saw them when I was with him. He didn’t notice me so I could have walked away to my office but I decided to be nice and say hi and chat a little. He asked why they haven’t seen me since ex left….. and then said they all miss me, and his wife asks about me sometimes. I said I feel like it’d be weird to see them without ex/now that he’s gone (he moved out of province) and he said it wouldn’t be. The said we should all get dinner sometime soon and I said sure we could do that. Then he said … “promise?” So I had to promise.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with any of them but I know it will be awkward for me as I always felt awkward when I was around them when ex was with me. We don’t have a lot in common but they are all super friendly people.

Now I have to have dinner with them sometime and I don’t even have money to go out to eat 😭

EDIT: I do have money technically to go out to eat but I’m hard on the budget and don’t go out to eat. If I said I don’t have the money/the budget they would offer to pay for me which would make me feel more guilty so there really was no winning here without being an ass

TLDR I was polite to my ex’s friend and now I have to get dinner with his whole friend group

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