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TIFU by oversharing with the guy I liked

I (18f) don't know what to do. I think I screwed things up big time yesterday with the guy I like (22m) we'll call him V. So me and V have been talking for not that long, maybe twoish months? We have a lot in common and I really do enjoy his company. He's a really sweet guy, he has a strong set of morals, he's funny, and he does a great job of making me actually feel wanted. Now here's where I messed up.

We were at a party together yesterday and I'll admit, I cannot hold my liquor for the life of me. I ended up oversharing a lot about my family to V yesterday and I'm so angry at myself for not realizing the fact that he was probably uncomfortable with it until it was too late. On the ride home, he all of a sudden wouldn't look and me and started to shut down. I feel so angry at myself for blabbing on about things he probably didn't know. Anyways, when we got to my house, he would normally give me a kiss goodbye or walk me to the door but he didn't yesterday. Earlier this morning I got a text from him saying he doesn't want to do this anymore.

I've been feeling like absolute shit all this morning and I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to apologize and see if we can give this another shot and another part of me wants to respect his wishes. Reddit, what do I do? Even though I barely met this guy, I fell for him and fell for him hard.

TLDR: I couldn't hold my liquor and overshared with the guy I liked, pretty much blowing my chances with him :/

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