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TIFU by accidentally crushing? on a relative

Important: not immediat relatives (very distant, probably) and nothing has, or will, happen, this isnt any weird incest shit.

so, I (19, nb) have recently begun studying for a degree. first day of classes, the prof starts to take attendance, and one last name sounds awfully familliar. For context, my moms from a family that largely lives in the countryside and procreates like rabbits so my extended family is fkn huge (i know like maybe 10% of my cousins once removed personaly, and its not uncommon that iv'e never met someone im related to)

so yeah, this guy has the name of my moms family. i immediatly start going through all the people that could potentially have kids my age and come up with way too many. I figured it might be fun if were actually related, so i start talking to him (i dont tell him abt the related thing tho, didnt wanna be weird), and he's actually really nice, we match on worldviews, humor hobbies ect and he starts hanging out with my friendgroup from highschool and me, we text lots and study together. Meanwhile im still trying to figure out if he's like, a distant cousin or some sht. I ask my mom, who comes up with no one blood related in our family tree down from my maternal great grandparents, so i figure it's probably just a weird coincidence and let it go.

well, we've grown kinda close over the past few weeks, and i feel like he might have started to crush on me, or at least he's sending hella mixed signals, and i kinda can't say i don't feel anything abt him? He's really my type and we mesh really well. But there's still the off chance that were distantly related, so now i feel like i lost a major chance at someone i'd genuinely could behappy with- but i just don't wanna risk it.

TL;DR: met a guy, same last name as my grandma, did some digging and am fairly sure were not related, have a crush on him but i cant get it out of my head that we could be related

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