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TIFU by not realizing my coworker liked me back

Ok so obligatory this didn't happen today but rather a few months ago. So I (F21) started a new job about 10 months ago and instantly clicked with one of my coworkers (M22). We talked all the time, texted after work, and I even hung out with him after work a couple times. He would host some get togethers at his place and once I went to a house party with him. We flirted everyday but nothing ever happened and the flirting never reached the point where we called each other attractive so I really thought that he might just be friendly. When we had hung out outside of work I had moved in closer to him and he moved away so I took that as a sign that he didn't like me. I am also technically above him but I don't have much authority so I didn't want to make things awkward or mess up a job that I really love. One day I mentioned I was going on a date with someone and my coworker (Ig we can just call him Bryan) started acting differently. There was a huge difference in our interactions, he wasn't rude, just reserved. We kinda got back on track in a month or so but it didn't feel the same. He ended up moving away for the summer. We talked while he was gone, even called one time but nothing more than that.

He came back last week and started working with me again. Before he left he was going out with a girl and now they're official. I met her and she's really nice but she also looks a lot like me.

My other coworker ended up telling me that Bryan thought we were "talking" and heading towards a relationship before I went out with someone but the thing is he never said anything. He never made a move so I was confused and didn't want to make a mistake. I'm kicking myself for never making a move.

TL;DR the coworker I liked apparently liked me back A LOT and now has a girlfriend that looks exactly like me.

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